15 Séx Tips For Women (From Men)

It's hard, especially if you've been a long-term relationship or marriage, to keep the séxy alive. It's easy to fall into a rut when it comes to a romp in the bedroom -- we've all done it -- and harder than ever to come back out of the rut with some new séxy moves.

There's no one better to discuss how to please a man then, well, another man.

Here are 15 suggestions from guys about how to bring the heat back into your relationship:

1. Stráp on some séxy stockings and a garter belt.

2. Keep your náughty bits well-maintained. A simple trim can suffice if a bikini wax is an undesirable (ouch!) option.

3. Try a lap-dance or a séxy strip-téase. That doesn't mean you have to spend a fortune on lingerie -- you can easily remove the frumpiest clothes séxily.

4. Séxy texts can really get him going. Send him something like, "I can't wait for you to get home tonight -- got a surprise for you," and, well, give him a surprise!

5. If you're separated by many miles, try phone séx. It may feel weird at first, but it can be wicked séxy if you go with it.

6. Try something new. If your man isn't someone who is loud in the bédroom, explore new territory with him.

7. Lose all your inhibitions. Nothing revs a man up more than knowing that what he's doing to you is driving you wild.

8. Guide him into doing what you like. Take his hand and put it wherever you'd like it to go -- not only is this séxy for you, it's a total turn-on for a guy.

9. Just like women like a blended orgásm (more than one part of the vágina stimulatéd at the same time), men do, too. Try mixing up a hand-jób or a blów-jób by playing with his testicles.

10. Talk dirty to him. If you're not used to it, it may feel WAY awkward, but the more you do it, the more second-nature it will become. And there's a bonus! It may turn you on, too.

11. Bust out the séx toys -- remember, they can be multipurpose. Use them to stimulaté the shaft of the pénis while giving a blów-jób to bring him to new heights of orgásm.

12. Switch positions. It's easy to fall into the whole, "We have séx missionary style," or "I'm always on top," but you may find yourself pleasantly surprised by new positions.

13. Make séx a surprise. Put on his favorite pair of undérwear and meet him at the door when he comes home from work.

14. Join him in the showér. No reason getting clean can't come AFTER getting dirty.

15. Bring a bunch of pillows into the bédroom. They'll help to achieve -- and enjoy -- new séxual positions.