My Pal Has Slépt with Three Guys. She's Only 15

I TOLD my friend I wasn’t impressed when she slépt with her boyfriend. She just joked about it and said I was jealous because I’m single.

We’re nearly 15. My friend’s got a new boyfriend who’s 18. I think she’s rushing into things with him. She’s already slépt with three guys.

We’ve been friends since nursery school. I don’t understand how we’ve managed to stay friends, despite going to different high schools. Now she’s letting a boy she hardly knows come between us.

She spends all her time with him and never has time for me any more. In the past we’ve always done everything together but now she is only interested in me when her boyfriend is busy.

She sent me a text saying she’d slit her wrists because she couldn’t go along with her boyfriend when he got a new tattoo. She’s always so dramatic and I’m sick of her self-harming and bragging about it for attention.

She’s being so stupid. I told her that sléeping with three guys at her age is not something to be proud of. I feel very out of place with her as I’ve only kisséd one boy. How do I make her take me seriously and believe that her behavior is dangerous?

Recommendations:

She sounds to be a troubled girl and she is lucky to have such a caring friend in you but, close as you are, you can’t run her life for her.

She is under the legal age for séx and her boyfriend could get into trouble with the law if he is having séx with her, but she will probably just close her ears to you if you criticise her.

Meanwhile, don’t let worrying about your friend take over your life. Get out with other friends who are taking better care of themselves, like you, and have fun.

Source: UK Sun